Published: January 29, 2026 2:37 pm

At first impression, she had a very casual, subdued appearance, so visually, I wasn’t too attracted to her. But she was constantly smiling and upbeat. As soon as we sat down to coffee, the conversation was very comfortable and easy-going. She really seemed to be a genuinely happy person, which is really important to me. As the first date continued, she really started checking all my boxes. We had a second date a few days later. She still had a subdued appearance, but she was so fun to be around, and I kept seeing more and more of my “wants” in her. We immediately planned a third date for a fun activity…axe throwing! On that date, she dressed a lot differently…and she more than fulfilled what I prefer in appearance! That date lasted well after the club closed for the night. We have since gone on three more dates, and things have progressed spectacularly. After the axe-throwing date, I told her I was putting my membership on pause to focus on us to see where it goes. She asked me if I wanted to be exclusive with her, and when I said “yes,” she got very happy and told me that’s what she wanted too! We’ve had some deep conversations, and so far, there is nothing about her that has a red flag, and she really makes me feel appreciated and desired…two things I haven’t experienced in maybe 10-15 years? That’s a long story, but I enjoy her to the point I don’t want any distractions from what we are building.